How Naturals Pick Up Women
It has happened to every man… and it plain sucks…
Your eyeballs catch sight of a piece of T&A origami.
Her body, an affectionate nod to Playboy magazine perfection.
You may even think about doing things to her that wouldn’t get mom’s seal of approval.
Now for the part that’s grosser than sticking your nose in grandma’s underwear…
You snap back to reality. A bombshell is smack-dab in front of you.
Your tongue is tied into a knot. In this moment, you feel like you’ve got the conversation skills of Forrest Gump.
“If only I had the perfect memorized line at my beck and call, I could entrance this sexy vixen,” you may be thinking.
Could be.
But consider this…
If you gave a group of guys the same pick up line, the results would be fascinating. Some will experience horrifying rejection. Others will use it and be making sweet monkey love with a woman in no time.
Another point to consider…
Have you ever watched natural ladies men approach women? You may have noticed that many didn’t use a pick up line.
When they do use one, it’s so bad most men would think it would never work.
Here’s the point I’m trying to get across…
It’s totally kosher to use pick up lines.
But it isn’t the words flying out of your trap that spark a sexual interaction between you and a woman.
What’s the trick?
Have a surgeon whittle you a new face and body?
Just joking.
Here’s my advice…
When out on the town, observe the men getting all the female attention.
Ignore the content of what they’re saying.
Instead, pay attention to how they talk to and behave around women.
Years ago, I did this and discovered certain patterns of behavior all ladies men exhibit when meeting and attracting women.
I don’t have time in this article to share all of them.
But as a start, here are two…
1) Get out of your head:
Ladies men are extroverted perceivers . Instead of worrying about getting rejected, they expend their mental energy observing women they’d like to meet and attract.
Here’s an exercise for doing this…
When out on the town, notice all the interesting things about women – the funny expressions they make, the clothes they wear… and so on. This little mental exercise will change your focus of attention from the cancerous thoughts in your head to the outside world.
2) When they see a woman they like, they go in for the kill ASAP:
When most men see an attractive woman, their mind floods with a stampede of worries, such as: “Am I too short or too tall for her?” Will she embarrass me in front of everyone?” “Does she have a boyfriend?” and so on The longer they wait, the more cancerous thoughts burrow their way into their noggin, making even more difficult to approach. Don’t fall victim to this.
The time between your eyeballs catching sight of a girl you’d like to meet and you approaching her should be no longer than three seconds.
Josh Lubens, a world famous dating coach, writes under the pseudonym Swinggcat and has taught men how to pick up women for over ten years. On his website, you can get pick up lines that actually work.
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