How To Pick Up Women The Right Way
Many a man has has spotted an attractive girl and thought to himself, “Wow, she’s got more legs than a bucket full of chicken.”
Next, he chugged down some liquid courage and strutted up to her. But within a blink of an eye, she shot him down.
He, then, walked away hunchbacked and long faced, wearing an existential funk ten times the size of his deflated ego.
Maybe you’ve been there before? I know I have. I used to be so scared to pick up women that I’d imagine them pointing out all of my physical flaws. How cool is that – I’d reject myself before she got a chance to reject me.
Meeting and approaching women is no easy business for those who haven’t mastered the necessary skills. Let’s take a look at why this is so.
Most of the time, guys pick up girls for their beauty alone – and girls know this, my friend.
Half the time, even if you find them as sexy as a hemorrhoid , they’ll still think you’re trying to pick up on them.
But this, my friend, is about to change…
Catching a glimpse of the average man approaching a woman is a grizzly sight to behold. Think of the woman as a skilled fisherman with something irresistible hanging from her pole and the guy as a dumb fish who’s minutes away from being turned into her dinner.
He may still have some fight in him. But, alas, he doesn’t have a chance. (However, if she sees him as a piece of female eye-candy, there may be a glimmer of hope.)
I’m also a fish – but an F-ed up, twisted, alien barracuda. Just when they feel that they have me on their hook I start throwing bait at them.
They start chomping away at the bait and, then, bam – they’re on my hook and I’m reeling them in.
Let’s look at an example. When at a bar, I’ll stand in a high-traffic area – e.g., near the ladies room or entrance to the smoking patio. When a girl walks by I’ll jut out my elbow making it next to impossible for her to avoid bumping into it.
And then in an overdramatic and offended tone I’ll utter: “Ow…you hurt me.”
A bit flustered, the lovely lady will put her hand on my shoulder and gush, “I’m so sorry.”
I’ll quip back with, “Before you can touch me, you need to tell me an interesting story or a funny joke.
This not only hooks the woman into an interaction with you but also builds sexual tension.
For most men, when a piece of T&A origami fills their groin with lust, their mind starts thinking of ways to win her over.
Put simply, she has them emotionally hooked and she knows it. Just about anything they do to impress her, is a sign she is reeling them in even closer.
With my example above, however, I’m doing the opposite. Instead of me proving myself to her, I’m making her prove herself to me. I’m the sought after Prize, not her.
Here’s a universal truth about dating and attraction: In every male-female interaction, only one person can be the Prize. Two people can’t chase each other at the same time.
You need to put yourself in the role of the Prize and the woman in role of the suitor working to win you over.
Josh Lubens, a world renowned relationship coach, writes under the pseudonym Swinggcat and has taught men how to pick up women for over ten years. On his website, you can get free pick up lines that actually work.
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